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writes:Ok well this is a pretty weird questionbut i justed to see others opinions on this( a little info 2 understand it better)(idk if this matters but im 15)I have a friend, who ive known for about 3 years, who i used to have a crush on.(he used to like me 2) He always came to me for help with his relationship problems and stuff and would always mess me and still does mess with me.Time has gone by and we didnt txt as much as we had in the past, which was like every single day, from morning to night.We're now txting again and his girlfriend supposedly just made 11 months of being together but not really. Cuz he has cheated on her and just broken her heart. Yet they continue being together, i mean that doesnt really bother me as much because i have my own boyfriend. The thing is he sends me pictures of himself (nt often but sometimes)shirtless..nt d@ it really bothers me because he does have an awesome body, but then hes calling me sexy and stuff, And over time we just decided to call each other bro and sis.He recently called me his sexy sis, i was like oh and he had said that i had the body and the eyes and the lips and that i have a nice personality and smile. If he askes me for sexy pictures and says those things, does that mean he likes me? or just a little bit? of is he just messing around because of his boredom? Or because he just likes doing it because he gets bored with his gf? Idk i was just curious to know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell..here an update..i sent him a txt foward that i got and it said Would u kiss me or pass? and he responded back as kiss..and i asked him if he was serious and he said yea..and to do it whenever..its funny he has a girlfriend..he obviously doesnt love her like he says he does..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks u guys..i read some nice advice
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reader, xanthic +, writes (14 July 2010):
 It means he's attracted to you, not that he definitely likes you. For some boys, it doesn't even matter whether they like a girl or not. If she's there and willing to lower her standards for them, they're interested.
Don't let him make you his next side dish, he's already trying to sweet talk his way into getting what he wants. Once you give in, he's going to ask for something more, and then something else after that. As the saying goes, 'If you give someone an inch, they'll take a mile'.
He's only looking for someone new to cheat on his girlfriend with, don't even bother texting him anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): Why do you care if he "likes-likes" you or not? He's repeatedly cheated on his current girlfriend, so you don't want him because who's to say he won't do the same thing when he gets bored of you?
You're 15. I don't know what kind of "sexy pictures" you're considering sending him, but know this: Taking and distributing nude photos of yourself, a child, is illegal. People in possession of those can be prosecuted and sent to jail for child pornography.
This boy is not worth your attention or time in the capacity of being more than just friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): He is well aware that you have a crush on him, come on you give yourself away just by asking, do you think he likes me just a little?
He is baiting you and trying to see if you will begin to get more amourous with him. He has a girlfriend, he isn't serious about, but he's not for you either. He thinks he is a stud muffin, the biggest baddest horse in the barn and all this little fillies are his for the taking.
Stop feeding the monster, don't send him anything, not even texts...seriously, what a waste of time...find something else to do.
He just has one very large ego, and he is a player, telling you about how your body parts are such in such is telling you how he sees you, as an object...a sexual one.
That's not how you deserve to be treated by a friend.
So he is pretty to look at on the outside? He is disrespectful to you in his behavior and attitude whether you want to see it that way or not, he's playing you for a fool. He may not be that smart and doesn't realize he's being that way, that is where you step in and set some boundaries. Tell him to stop asking you for sexy pictures that you aren't that kind of girl and see him as a friend. No brother sister relationship that I am aware of involves sexual comments and requests for pictures of a sexy nature.
Understand?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): No, I'm sorry but he doesn't like you. He just wants to jerk off.
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