A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi all i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for six years but i dont think i love him. i just love our sex life. he feel more like a good friend then a boyfriend. i think all we have is lust and friendship so whats the Difference between Love and Lust. help pls he asked me to marry him but i told i dont love him its lust. he started crying because he says he is deeply in love with me. i feel so so bad i not ready to take the next step unless i know what i want for sure. i been thinking about just breaking it off with him because i dont what to lead him on and hurt him in the end.[Mod note: periods added to break up the text into sentences for legibility.]
View related questions:
period, sex life, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Ciar  +, writes (26 September 2011):
 Lust is for and about you. Love is for and about someone else (in this case your boyfriend).
Don't second guess yourself. If he was the one you wanted to spend the rest of your life with, you'd be certain of it.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011): Lust within a deep friendship is some form of love.
Many good strong lasting relationships and marriages are between people who are close friends.
Ask yourself what your life would be like without him. If you can't live without him, this is love.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011): I suggest you follow your gut, if you don't think it's love then don't marry him and you should break it off so you don't have to keep hurting him. Both of you deserve someone who loves them back. So the sex isn't worth hurting this guy.
...............................
|
