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writes: Hi,I would like someones opinion on what has just happened to me and what i should do.I just watched my boyfriend run a race and went to congratulate him after. He was with his workmates as they entered as a team, and basically i feel like ive just been completely blanked. he didnt kiss me hello, didnt even get within 1 metre of me, not even a touch. He always greets me with a kiss. He spoke to me for about a minute and didnt introduce me to anyone. This is the first time I have ever met any of his friends. I ended up chatting to one of the other guys wife (who seemed to know more about our relationship than i do). So i got fed up and said i was going back to work and he should ring me when hes done and left him to it. Am i over reacting, or did i really just get completely snubbed by my bloke? I feel like he is embarrassed of me. I have to go to lunch with him in about an hour, and dont know what to do, or whether i should bring up his reaction to me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2006): My guy is like that with me when he races his cars, but I try not to take it personally. I know he is totally focused on the activity. We are both quite shy too around our friends and particularly given the fact that it is an extremely male environment I know he wouldn't like it if I tried to act lovey dovey with him so I tend to respect him and leave him alone. He did apologise to me the other night for not having spoken to me saying he was so cross about his car that he couldn't speak!!!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (3 September 2006):
 Sounds like he was acting like a bit a of a jerk there, but people can be like that sometimes when they get caught up in the heat of the moment. But the first person he should look for when he's happy is you! You do need to bring this up with him, it'll just bug you until you do.
It may not be that he's embaressed by you, maybe you upset him or something. You need to get this out of him because you both were obviously a bit off.
Good luck and hope he was just having a bit of a strop!
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