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He always texts back, but since the message where I told him how I felt I have not heard anything! Have I scared him off?

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Question - (19 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2011)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Few days ago I asked this question about telling someone who I'm sort of involved with, that I miss him

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-i-tell-him-i-miss-him-do.html

I felt really positive and sure about telling him this, but I was really nervous about sending a text because I'm the kind of person who keeps thoughts to themselves and bottle things up...

So I sent the message and switched my phone off.

Next morning, I checked my phone anxiously to see that I had no new messages. Whenever I send him messages he does answer back, even if its late or if he's working. Now I'm fearing for the worst that I have in fact scared him off...

What should I do? Try not to worry and be patient? or just let go of this and move on?

View related questions: move on, text

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (19 January 2011):

xanthic agony auntWhat exactly do you mean by 'sort of' involved with? Friends with benefits or casually dating?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011):

There are must read dating books called The Rules, He's just not into You, and another called Why Men Love Bitches. You really need to read those!! I clicked on your link and I saw several telling factors his level of interest was low and not anything more than something casual and you came on too strong. I would move on and let this go and read those books before you start dating again. Delete his number so you won't be tempted to hound him and see him.

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