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female
age
30-35,
*atman5
writes:So I've finally gotten closer to my guy friend and flirting was so casual that I never noticed he was hinting at me, but he tells me he likes me and thats it. I don't understand him. He calls me babe, we can act like a couple, we constantly flirt, and we've been friends for a very long time.. Why does he still not want to ask me out or "not want a girl"? I understand that he had a tough relationship with his last girlfriend while I was having one too and she still wants him back but he admitted to me that he doesn't want anything to do with her. I also realize he plays sports and is now working, but he's said the same thing to me before. Does he just not want to be with me, but doesn't want me with anyone else or does he not want to risk our friendship since he's told me he doesn't want to lose me? Ahh, I'm so confused! Someone explain to me :( I'm going crazy over here.I posted this already but I'm thinking I have a clearer more explained version. ive known this one guy since a little before my freshman year (im going to be a senior) and i was crushing on him before me nd my long time love went out.. he tells me hes not into a reationship but then falls for some girl.. i felt bad but then i started going out with my guy nd forgot somewhat about it.. during the time we were together he was having problems similar to mine so we were talking about it and he says fuck the bullshit lets leave them and me nd you get together.. so tht left me thinking but i knew neither of us were going through with it.. ever. so then he breaks up with her or whatever they had their break up and i had mine.. then me nd him always casually flirted nd stuff but i dint realize he was hinting at me this year so he admits it and i was shocked.. we kissed and all tht stuff nd we do act like a couple sometimes but he always avoids talking feelings but i wanna know! and well he tells me today tht i should be glad that he tells me something he feels like when he admitted to liking me but its not enough and i dont want to try nd make him tell me anything cuz its not me and i feel like it would fuck things up..he calls me babe whenever i choose to ignore talking to him like that yet he tells me he doesnt want a girlfriend and i feel like its because of his ex.. like hes waiting for her or something because she confessed she still wanted him nd wat not.. he told me he doesnt want anything to do with her nd i dint ask him but he showed me all the messages.. so why doesnt he want to go out?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 June 2010):
How are you acting towards him. Maybe he's looking for some sign in you that you like him. It seems as if he likes you, but if you might be sending him mixed messages. And like most men, he won't see past them. Try talking to him more and carefully watch him.
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