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*ruce lee
writes:I have to be honest. I find women cuter when they are carrying a bit of weight (as long as they are not huge). But I want to know how women feel? Do they feel embarrassed if they are a bit overweight or do they feel sexier? Or would they prefer to be slim?Well? Is the question clear?Thanks for your answers (in advance).
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (20 September 2010):
 Hi Bruce,
I still like your questions.
Personally I like women who have some curves, I know that wasn't your question. Just thought I'd throw in my two bits. Now I think men feel better about them selves when they have more muscle mass. The BMI ignores this and wants us all to be bean poles, which is not really attractive on anyone. I think confidence is the real attractive factor, (to swing over to your other recent question). It is important to note that a person can be confident without being rude. So many people, in trying to be confident, end up being pushy, cocky, or bitchy, which is not attractive to anyone.
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reader, bruce lee +, writes (19 July 2010):
bruce lee is verified as being by the original poster of the question I think all three of you put some thought into these answers, so well done!
I guess men don't look so good when they are overweight though. But I still say, inner beauty is more important than outer beauty. These days, people don't really believe that but there is some truth to it.
But it's true that you can't generalize these things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): i feel sexier slimmer than i am now, but not too skinny. I have been 113 lbs at 5'9" and 215. The truth is that i felt sexy at both ends but at about 165 i feel the best. That puts me at a size 12, enough curves, and a fairly flat belly. I would rather be a little overweight than underweight.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 July 2010):
I think it's something you can't really generalize about.I guess it depends on the individual woman.
If you grow up skinny and then later gains weight, you might not be as confident with the few extra pounds/kilo.
Some women are comfortable in their own skin whether they are 120 lbs or 200. And you can tell.
I think though, that most women would like to be skinny. Because that is what society tells us constantly is the standard beauty. Facts are only 2% of the worlds female population fits into the skinny supermodel mold.
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