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writes:hi! im in a very confused situation. i've been having sexual relationship with my stepmom's brother. i used to like him when i was 14, now i'm 19 and he is 24, we live in the same house. i thought it was just a crush, but i think it's more then that, maybe it's b/c i lost my virginity with him. we have a hidden relationship, no one knows, it has been going for 4 months, i'm afraid that someone might find us, and i want to stop it, i have tried so many ways to stop, but he doesn't want to stop. he says that he's in love with me and wants to marry me. we cannot marry b/c my dad is already married to his sister, and i have a boyfriend which i used to love and now i have forgotten him. i don't know anymore what to do, and sometimes i question his love for me b/c alot of girls like him., and i have notice that he has changed, he used to go out alot, but now he spends most of his time at home. would he just want to use me for something or is he really in love with me? and what should i do? should i end it know before someone finds us? what should i do to end? how am i going to do so? please help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): I dont understand whats wrong with it. Your not blood related so whats the problem?
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reader, Arkiteck  +, writes (14 February 2008):
I know this sounds disgusting, but in thinking about it, i don't see anything wrong with the relationship. Yea, your step mom is his sister and all, but you're not blood related so it's not incest. If you want it to stop, then stop it, but do so because YOU want it to and not because you feel it's immoral or un-natural. The only thing that makes the situation weird is the fact that your dad and his sister are married. aside from that i think it's open game. Tha's just my opinion though, i'm sure others here will differ.
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