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writes:ok,so ive just been txin me boiifrend,and i keep asking him these question like "why do you say you love me,when u probably dont mean it" keep in mind we're only young, and i mean young, but he assures me he does mean it but then he says, why do u keep asking me these questions every couple of days and i told him it was because im insecure, because i always have to bottle up what im feeling.and he hasnt replied and i tried calling him but he wont answer, have i scared him away by telling him the truth?
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (8 June 2008):
 it is possible to believe your in love at such a young age, which means when he said it its possible that he ment it. stoping asking him that though cuz your probably hurting his feelings everytime you ask.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (8 June 2008):
 Well, I hope that you get more messages from him again. I think that you might want to ease up the text messages... and perhaps realize that there are people who are affectionate and know what they want... although I suspect that you're both a bit young to KNOW those kind of things now. Anyway, if he says that he loves you, why is it so hard to accept? Give him a little space and then if you're interested in keeping a relationship with him then tell him that you'll do your best accept his affections, but recognize that sometimes you get those insure feelings. If he cases, he'll understand it.
Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): 10 - 12 years old? There is no way you should be telling a partner that you love them. You need to have friends and then potentially a friendship can turn into something more. Unbelieveable.
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