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writes:Last night, for the first time, i had unprotected sex with a bloke i dont know. im scared i may have a std or that im pregnant. i already hve a 3 month old daughter and i dont bellieve in abortions- im really scared to go to a gum clinic in case they think im some kind of sleaze, but im not. I hardly ever go ou, coz of my baby but my friends dragged me out unsuspectingly.im scared i may have something serious, and im scared. help me lease! especially wizard of waz dude.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (8 June 2008):
 Hun, I agree get the morning after pill. Next time practise safe sex. Ok?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): I agree with "lexilou" get to the clinic, and get the morning after pill, rather safe then sorry. You do have a baby to take care of, you do not need an unplanned pregnancy now! Yes, stock up on condoms and please.....whatever you do, in future do not have UNPROTECTED SEX, not just for your sake but think about your baby.....AIDS is a silent killer. Do make sure you have the necessary test done, now and do remember there is a window period of 6 months ffor aids, so re do the test after 6 months.
I must stress to you that apart from the risk of falling pregnant, STD's , AIDS is probably the most important reason to avoid unprotected sex.
Please take immediate care and try to avoid this happening in future..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): I am not wizard but I hope i can help, get yourself to a place that issues the morning after pill asap, that should rest your minds about being pregnant as if you have a 3 month old you really ned to make sure your not pregnant again as this is too soon after your daughter and not good for your body to go through 2 preganacys in such a short time.
As for ther the std get yourself to a well woman clinic they will check for anything but please dont be ashamed or embarressed to go to another clins as its better to be safe than sorry, you have a baby to look after. i am not going to give you a lecture, you seem to be beating yourself up enough, what I will suggest is when you do go out ( I know its rarely) try to plan ahead and if you cant be good be carefull
Hope this has helped you.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (7 June 2008):
 Right first of all get yourself along to the clinic. They will not judge you or think you are a sleaze they are paid to help you not treat you badly.
Secondly see your doctor, you can take the morning after pill 5 days after unprotected sex to reduce the risk of pregnancy, lie if you have to and say the condom split if it makes you feel more able to approach them
Next thing to do is stock up on condoms just in case it happens again, I know right now you think no way, but just be better prepared next time. Hope everything works out for you x
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (7 June 2008):
First go get plan B. You dont want another baby and you 72 hours to take that. As far as an STD you have to wait six months before HIV would show up so wait six months and go in and say you want a routine STD check lots of people have them. Is it worth having a baby over being worried to get a plan B pill. Just go today and get it! Also your not 16 so you are not a slut!
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