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writes:Hello. I haven't posted here in a while really just because I forgot my password but I am back and I really wanted to share something. I don't really need advice just a discussion if other girls have similar experiences to what I have just had. So I have started seeing this great guy. Things see going along slowly but everything is amazing in the bedroom. Before I meet him I was really going off sex snd could only ever feel a orgasm when I used my vib on myself. I don't think I have realised how amazing sex is until him. It really helps that I feel so close with you and happy to be naked in his arms but also the fact I made him cum from being on top and the fact I enjoyed it so much too. He had me in positions I never thought off before and is so good st pleasing me in other ways too. Outside off sexual stuff I think he's a great guy and I think we will eventfully be together it's just going to take time but I am so happy with the way we are at the moment. Before him I hated sex almost. With my ex I couldn't even feel his % and amp;*$# inside him half the time or he was so selfish and just wanted me to go down on him. I'm sorry for going on but has anyone ever had experiences like this or have I been missing out and at the age of 25 I have just discovered amazing sex the way it should be. What does it even mean that he managed to cum with me On top? I was like wow. Sorry. Enough said.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (20 June 2012):
Hi there. I think that like you said here, the ex just wasn't the type to want to please anyone but himself.
His focus was on him - and not you.
And now, you have met a man who does have focus on pleasing you and he is obviously a more mature and considerate man, generally.
So yes, you ought to be very thankful that you have met this man you are now going out with.
And it's a big PLUS, that he treats you well and with respect and dignity.
So it's not just that it is fantastic sex between you, it's also a fantastic relationship as well.
And that's really important.
I believe you are reading it right.
The reason you probably had not much interest in making love with the previous boyfriend, is because you never had any good experiences with him, so it's not at all surprising, is it?
The ex didn't care much, and this new guy really does care and considers your pleasure, as well as his own.
He is a good man.
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