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writes:10, no,12 years for me not having a real relationship.I Know that I came frome, Chile, There was zero chance for me since I didn't own my own vehicle.Now that I have the chance of owning, but not driving it, my own vehicle, why can't I get my own girlfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (17 January 2009):
 “Now that I have the chance of owning, but not driving it, my own vehicle, why can't I get my own girlfriend?”
Having a car and having a girlfriend are two separate distinct things. Although girls are attracted to cars, it doesn’t mean that they will ride the car with you.
You have to court somebody to have a girlfriend. You don’t need a car as a prerequisite for a relationship.
I drive a car and a motorcycle too but I have them just to go from place to place.
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And sometimes, I see a beautiful stranger look at me because she is attracted at the car, but not attracted to me. The thing is the car is inanimate but you are much better than an inanimate object. If by chance, a stunning woman wants to meet up with me because of my car, then I would not be at all interested. If you intend to have a fruitful, meaningful and worthwhile relationship – you have to show your affection to somebody not attracted to your possessions.
Come to think of it, I had wonderful relationships before I owned these vehicles. It is not about cars, it is not about anything that makes women love you but it is about who you are.
My advice: Be a lover, not a driver.
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