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writes:Hello all, I am posting in curiosity of the contraceptive pill and breast increase.. I have never taken any contraceptive pill before. I am 22, and I hate my breasts. They are very small, my boyfriend is not attracted to them, and I've become very self conscious of them to the point were I feel very down about it. I understand it is not the end of the world having small breasts, but it's something I feel I really need to do something about. I am aware that sometimes different contraceptive pills can perhaps increase breast size. I know it's wrong to take the pill in aim of bigger breasts, but I would love to try it and see if it gave me fuller breasts even if it's just a little bit. I know there are also the not so good side effects of contaceptive pills but if there is even a slight chance that it will make me bigger I'm all up for it! My question is, have any women on here gained breast size whilst on the pill? And if so, what pill were/are you on? I would be ever so greatfull for infrmation on which pill's the best for increasing breast size, thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): Thank you guys for the advice.. In reply to BettyBoup that cheered me up a bit thank you :] I know how that feels, I've been compared to his ex's and stuff and I have actually talked to him about it in the past, he has appologised, but the damage is kind of done and although he's appologised it doesn't take back all the things been said, so I still know what his ideal is and I'm far from it :( My boyfriend too talks about hot celebrity women, or he used to more so to say.. He'd sometimes say things like 'She needs to put some weight on' pointing to a person on television that is as thin as me! It's not very nice is it :s I know it's just looks, but personaly, I wouldn't get involved with someone who was the complete opposite of what I found attractive. I am pale and slim with black hair. He likes blondes with fake boobs and a tan. I don't feel comfortable so to say that he doesn't find me as sexually attractive as this ideal in his head. I was so confused about it all that I was considering taking a break from him a while ago, but I love him a lot I just wish I could take back the things he said so that I could be confident with him. I may do that though, I may start talking about someone opposite to his apperance and see how he reacts, maybe if he sees how much it can play one the mind he'll realise how it's effected me..
In reply to Person12345, I know what you mean. I don't know if I'll be much happier if I manage to up my breast size, but I'll give it a go.. You are right about the brainwashing.. I don't understand it, I've personally never been brainwashed into being told what sexy is. I have my own tastes and I like individuals, I wish my boyfriend appreciated my quirkiness but he, like many other men like the typical ideal of a woman: Made in Hollywood style. It's sad really. I know a couple of men that genuinly prefere small breasted women, I have a male friend whom I've known for years, everytime we're out he get's chatted up and he has only ever taken interest in the smaller breasted women. So I know they exist, I just wish my man was one of them! But hey ho, he likes what he likes.
I'll try my luck on the pill and see if my breasts increace, if they do, I'll see if I feel any better in my situation. Thanks for all the advice so far, and please keep it coming if there is any more!
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (20 June 2011):
 I agree with person12345. It sounds like the reason you are so concerned about having smaller breasts is your boyfriend. He may be ignorant about how his comments affect you emotionally, but that doesn't make it ok. He hasn't directly abused you by actually telling you he finds your breasts unattractive, but indirectly he has. The equivilent would be for a girl to talk to her boyfriend about her ex's massive penis and how great it was, but then say it's ok because you're good with your hands. It's horrible! It puts you down and makes you feel inferior.
I know how you feel because I am overweight, a size 16 to 18, and my boyfriend(although he says to me that he doesn't think I'm fat etc) comments unkindly about overweight women, and makes comments about really skinny women being the ideal, most attractive way to look. He's told me he's been out with superhot women before to prove a point, but therefor implyed I am not superhot in his opinion.
It seems that guys do think a LOT about women's physical appearence and they have an ideal stored in their head. This is influenced by the media and pornography. Society is such that men(I'm generalising) feel this is normal and acceptable, although many would not reveal their judgementalness to their girlfriends, as they know this is disrespectful. Hey, we all find certain things attractive, and when we find a partner, they might not look like Johnny Depp or Pamela Anderson, but most people would not compare their partner to the ideal, as this is rediculous and unfair!
Your boyfriend is just a little ignorant and stupid, because he is revealing his thoughts to you, that should be kept to himself. His thoughts are damaging your self esteem. Your breasts are not the problem. Your breasts are beautiful the way they are. It is his ideals of beauty that are unacceptable and warped.
I appreciate he's your first boyfriend and you want him to be sexually attracted to you on every level. B you should not have to change your body to please him. He should change his thoughts to love you. He has chosen you to be his partner. He no doubt is sexually attracted to you. Therefore he should also find your breasts sexy. Just because he used to love big ones, doesn't mean he can't find small ones sexy too. Now he has a hot younger girlfriend, with perky small breasts, he should learn to appreciate that, and grow to love small breasts as well! I'm sorry but, the man needs to grow up and get over himself! I doubt you comment on how hot you think other guy's body parts are.
Maybe you should give him some of his own medicine. Pick a body part he is insecure about(ie receding hair line, beer belly). Now pick a celebrity with the opposite(someone with a full head of hair, perfect 6 pack etc). Flick through a girl's magazine and say ooh I just love this guy's 6 pack, it is soooo sexy. I've always loved guys with a perfect flat, toned stomach. If he gets offended, you can say well thats how I feel when you say how attractive big breasts are. Tell him how you feel! Let it out. If he is just unaware of how hurtful he is, then he should feel remorse and appologise. It may lead to a good heart to heart. or he may just reveal himself to be more of a jerk. In which case, you have to think of your self esteem and consider if this guy is worth your love.
You said you were never concerned about your breasts until you met your boyfriend. That's a big red flag right there. I'm not saying he's a complete jerk and you must leave him, just that this is one aspect of his personality that is unhealthy. It is affecting you negatively. Don't change yourself to try to appease his problem. Talk to him. Try to communicate how he has made you feel ugly. It may be hard to explain, but if you love him and want to stay, it is worth it to be happy with him. If you go down the route of changing yourself for others, you will lose who you are and give away all of your power.
Sorry to rant again! I hope this helps. And I know how easy it is for me to say this compared to how hard it is in real life. But the right thing to do is often the hardest and it will be worth it for your personal happiness in the end.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 Everyone responds differently, some women get larger breasts, some women just get larger, period. Some women don't have any changes at all. Personally I went up a whole cup size without weight gain, but I have friends who didn't experience this. Also the increase can be painful with just constant soreness since it's more of a swelling than a real change in breast size.
However, the biggest issue here is not your breast size but your confidence. The pill can have a lot of side effects ranging from unpleasant to horrific to dangerous and it shouldn't be taken totally lightly.
It sounds like you don't need so much to increase your breast size as to get yourself a better boyfriend. Larger breasts won't fix your self-confidence issues, only you can fix those. It's really unfortunate that so many people have been brainwashed into thinking large breasts are the only attractive ones, since it's just not true. Many men love smaller ones and they have the added benefit of being much more practical.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): Thanks for the answers so far, because I'm not a registered member here I don't know how this proves I'm the poster but anyhow.. In reply to BettyBoup, thank you, I know exactly what you mean, I try to appreciate myself and make the most of what I've got, I wish I wasn't so effected by this issue. I respect others who aren't and I wish I could be more posotive like that.
I never used to have a concern with my breasts until I met my boyfriend if I'm honest. He's a nice guy and I've been with him for over three years now. He's my first and only boyfriend an ten years older than me, therefore he has been with several other women. My issues started when he used to frequantly mention how attractive his ex's were. One in particular he mentioned had massive breasts, and told me 'but it doesn't matter because you have a nice stomach.' Stuff like that started to really play on my mind and get to me. As did his like for celebrities only with huge breasts. He's admitted that he's not overly attracted to small breasts on a sexual level.
I have tried not to let this bother me but I guess I just can't :s I don't think I'd ever consider going under the knife, I don't eally believe in that, but I thought perhaps I just may boost my confidence if I could go up a bit in breast size by the pill. I am going to make a doctors appointment to do so, but I was just wondering from other's experiences what pill has had best effects of breast increase..
Thanks again BettyBoup, much appreciate the thoughtful answer..
And DMartin89, may I ask what pill made you gain the weight please? I'd rather gain overal weight and breast weight than not at all I guess!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): I went up a cup size on Yazmin, and didnt gain any weight, actually lost a little! Ive had no other side effects except perfectly clear skin and fuller breasts!
On the other hand, why are you with someone who makes you feel bad about yourself? Maybe rethink that before you try to change yourself? Good luck!
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (19 June 2011):
 Yes, but only because I got fat..
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2011): When my friends have gained bigger breast size it's usually from gaining weight. That's why your cup size goes up... Because you get an increased appetite so eat more or you retain water more easily... So if you are prepared to gain weight and feel less confident in other areas of your body then go for it. But warning there are many other side effects you could get from the pill, so you need to do a lot of research to see if it's really worth it.
Your boyfriend should be way more supportive, he sounds like he is just fuelling your insecurity... You shouldn't be trying to change your self in any way to please him. Because it will only cause more body issues for you and you will never be happy. Get rid of people like that from your life! You deserve better than that.
I went on the pill for other reasons, and ended up gaining weight, and yes getting bigger boobs. But I would rather have no boobs and not feel really self concious elsewhere, such as no longer fitting clothes I used to love :(
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (19 June 2011):
The contraceptive pill CAN make you gain weight and therefore your breasts will increase with the rest of you. However, this is a side effect and it does not effect everyone in this way. If you were to go on the pill there would be no guarentee that your breats would enlarge. You could experience other unpleasent side effects such as nausea, moodiness or just weight gain without breast increase. So, basically, the pill is not a magic pill to get bigger breasts. The increase would be relativly small anyway.
The bigger issue here is your need to accept your body as it is. Unfortunatly there is pressure all around for us to be a certain way. When in fact, we ARE all different shapes and sizes, and we need to stop hurting each other and ourselves with our false ideals of beauty. What makes a person attractive is unique to that person. If we all looked the same, how could we find unique things in a new lover to fancy?
What concerns me is that you say your boyfriend is not attracted to your breasts. Has he told you this? Do not think it is a given that all men will not be attracted to small breasts. There are men that LOVE small breasts and would rather have a girlfriend with perky little boobs, compared to someone with big fake ones or natural ones that will sag in time. In other words, be thankful for what you have and who you are.
I know how hard it is, to not be considered the ideal body size/shape and to have a boyfriend who buys into what is conventional beauty in popular cuture these days. It hurts when a partner directly or indriectly lets you know they don't think your body is the most attractive body type in their eyes. It sucks, and it is not fair. I think when you love someone you love everything about them, all of their body parts become attractive to you as they are part of the package. If your partner does not and tells you that you should change or are not up to scratch, don't accept it. This will damage your self esteem and make you feel ugly. You are not. Maybe you need to find someone who will really appreciate you for exactly who you are, who will help you learn to love your breasts by showing you how much they love them. There is NO right and wrong way for breasts to look. They are MEANT to be different or they would all turn out the same.
I was going to suggest that if you truely cannot live with your breasts, to consider surgery. But I really don't think anyone should have to cut up their body just because our society is so obcessed with breast size as a measure of attraction. Its bollocks! Sorry, but, the world needs to learn to appreciate and love the infinate variety of people on this planet and celibrate this, instead of pressuring each other to reach this impossible idea of perfection.
Rant over.
At the end of the day, it's your life, so if you really wamt to try the pill, give it a go. It is unlikly to do you any damage. But don't do it and hope for results as you will set yourself up for disappointment.
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reader, bad romaance  +, writes (19 June 2011):
 My breasts have increased since I began taking the pill, Im 18 and began taking it over a year ago. since I began to grow I was always very small as in an A. since then I am now a 34C. I take Yasminelle. Its great I have not had any side effects.
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (19 June 2011):
 Not myself, but a friend of mine starting taking the pill and her breasts went from big b's to small d's. Don't know what pill she was on, but it all really depends on how the chemicals and hormones react to your body. I wish I knew which pill it was to advise you, but yes it can and does sometimes make your breasts larger.
I can tell you're sort of set on the idea that they need to be bigger, but personally I think 'deal with the hand genetics have dealt you' but that's just me. Totally up to you in the long run.
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