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writes:Have any of you out there ever just wanted to make your girlfriend cry just to make her feel better. I know that sounds so cruel but I don't mean do it to upset her just because she generally seems down but holds it back. Well my girlfriend is like this, she says she doesn't know why she's getting upset just feels quite down. She said she normally does around that time of the month and normally wears off after a few days but this time it hasn't. It has been 2 weeks since she finished her period and she's still feeling upset. She says it's not a depressive type of upset but she just wants to cry and feels as if she can't be happy. Thing is she wants to cry but won't and really isn't right at all. I just want to make her cry to get it out of her because I think that's a reason why it won't go away. Because she's never been the type to cry in front of anyone unless she can help it and tries not to let it show. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): Okay I'm not sure if I fully understand this but if you want to have her cry to get her emotions out b/c you think that is the problem, than that isn't bad at all of you to do. But you have to understand as difficult as guys find it to comprehend, girls tend to be A LOT more emotional than guys are. But if you want to make her cry... don't be the one to do it. Well, don't be an ass hole to her to get her to cry and think you are making things better for example, because you're not. Try to help her get the emotions out of her but do not do it in a cruel way. Maybe if you even see a movie she likes that makes her cry, doing this if she would tear up would also get the other emotions out of her. Just don't hurt her.
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