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30-35,
*eemin
writes:i need help cause my head is bugging right now. to start off. i met this girl at my friends birthday. we knew each other at that moment. we connected a lot. after that event i got her number from my friend. we started texting the next day ( texting is very usual here ). she always text me everyday. we were getting really close and she knew that i liked her. and i know too that she like me. we always make sweet text responses to each other. so there on we texted for a couple of weeks now. then there is this thing that happened after her class. we were supposed to hang out since we set it that date off. but then she texted me very late and said that to cancel of the date since its meaningless cause she need to go home early because she needs to study and promises me to hang out next time. I got fustrated and my mood for texting her changed but i didnt let her know in a show off way. i still texted her some sweet and we kept the conversation when texting still sincere. then the next day she didnt text me. until the next day. its been 3 days now that she havent texted me and its bugging me. in fact we even see each other online in messengers and facebook but she doesnt message me so due to that i dont message her. im starting to think maybe that this girl is thinking that i should text her first and she's playing hard to get or maybe she's losing interest in me. please guide me here
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reader, almc  +, writes (16 July 2010):
I think she wants you to text her, she might think your mad at her because she had to do some school work and not hang out with you, or she could be scared to hang out with you, someone new might be shy.. I don't know give her a text she is a girl and wants you to talk to her first, best of luck.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (16 July 2010):
 You can just ask her how her studies went. Keep the conversation light. If she still sounds sweet, suggest a place you can go to and ask her when she is available. It's time to call, not text. Texting is way too casual. Don't make the 3 day silence an issue, don't ask why she didn't text you and don't explain why you didn't text her. If her response is short but not sweet, like one word yes or no, then you can tell she's losing interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): If you really want to know, just message with a "hey what's up" and then ask what's going on, playfully. If she's still interested you'll know. After all that texting etc., she may just not want to seem obsessive and annoying. Or, maybe something happened. Ask her. I hope everything goes well :)
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