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writes:So I'm in kind of a complicated position but I’ll try to break it down. When I was on vacation last May in Berlin I met this girl at the hostile I was staying at. We spent the day together had a good time, went out that evening had some drinks together and ended up sleeping together. A couple days latter she had to go back to Texas and I had to go back to Maryland, she asked if we could stay in contact and I said sure, so I gave her my email. She emailed me a couple of times since then but lately I haven’t heard from her. Yesterday I was on Skype and looked her name up and saw she has an active account. I'm thinking of trying to give her a call but I'm not sure. She may have just lost interest and decided to forget about me, but if that was the case why did she want to stay in contact in the first place? Even if she wasn’t interested in developing the relationship any further, I still would have liked to stayed friends. The not knowing is really bugging the hell out of me. Anyone have any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, GoodDog  +, writes (4 August 2011):
 I'd give her a call or an e-mail to ask how she is. Don't go too heavy though - just a simple 'how are you?' etc.
Don't build your hopes up though just in case she has changed her mind about staying in touch.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (4 August 2011):
 why not just email her then to say how ya doing? etc. maybe she does not want to get into a situation that could lead to a long distance relationship. no harm with the occasional message though is there? maybe she has got a boyfriend now so doesn't want to cause trouble there by being in contact with an ex.
just mail her to say hi, if she doesn't respond then you will know for sure that she wants to put her brief relationship with you in the past and then you can move on too
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2011): Give her a call - nothing to lose - and then you will know whats what.Keep it light n friendly if you get in touch
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