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writes:has my bf just proposed to me? he told me he's coming to see me in 18 days time and he wants me to have a idea of a engagment ring i want coz he gonna buy which ever one i want.we have been discussing marriage alot and he knows ill say yes. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe finally did it and proposed properely and we went ring shopping but failed to find anything
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2007): chance's are he proposed cause he asked you took pick an engagement ring that you like
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2007): It looks like he's proposing without actually saying the words.
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reader, sunrise +, writes (2 March 2007):
 I think that goes without saying, but he's not very romantic is he? If he cant see you for another 18 days he had plenty of time to arrange a special time for you both and surprise you with a proposal. But if you're happy it's all good. x
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reader, chachacha +, writes (2 March 2007):
It sounds like you have a very healthy relationship - discussing marriage openly and setting forth each of your views. He knows that you want to get married to him, and you know that he wants to get married to you. Congratulations.
The issue of "proposals" is, to my mind, quite outdated. There is no requirement for a man to make a formal proposal to a woman, on bended knee or otherwise, in the old fashioned traditional way, with a nail biting moment; will she or won't she say yes.
That old fashioned way is a crazy approach - the right approach is the one you have taken, the one when you discuss it openly, honestly, rationally, and together.
I would wait for him to arrive, go shopping for the ring, take it home and then have an intimate moment where he puts it on - that is quite romantic enough without you wondering about "whether he has proposed".
Congratulations and good luck!
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