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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am dating this super wonderful guy and he asked me to move across the country with him but he used to be like the biggest player ever and I don't know how to tell if he is really outgrown it. He just turned 18, he is probably the hottest guy to ever live, like his face and his body are just perfect! And he has had sex with 11 of the girls in our high school, 7 of them are on my cheer squad and so I heard alot about him from all of them, and he made alot of them hate eachother so i always viewed him as kind of a dick, because he was always cheating on all these girls I knew with other girls I knew. He always kind of ignored me until March when I bleached my hair and then the first day he saw me with blonde hair he came up to me and started talking to me, (all of the other girls he has done had platinum blonde hair, he has like a fetish with hair) anyways thats not important but I think that is why he took an interest in me. And he asked me to go to lunch that day and I said yes but just because he got a new porsche for his birthday and I wanted to ride in it so I went with him, and I wanted to at least talk to him because he is so hot and found out what he is like a little bit. And I thought we was going to be all stupid and cocky and like "I'm the coolest guy in the world, I'm so hot and rich, don't you think I'm the hottest person in the world?" but he so wasn't, he was actually really nice and smart and we ended up sluffing the rest of the day and then we hung out that night and made out and did oral. Then We started hanging out alot and after like 2 weeks I couldn't wait any longer and I wanted to have sex with him, BUT I asked him to honestly tell me how many girls he had done before me, and he said 21!!!! He is only the third guy I have had sex with and I am 7 months older than him! It kind of freaked me out because I think thats alot but we still had sex and we have been together for 2 months and he is the best boyfriend, and he hasn't cheated on me like he has on all his other girlfriends, he buys me lots of stuff that I didn't even ask for, he got us our own limo for prom, he is soooooooo much better at sex then my last two partners, he has even made me squirt a bunch of times and I had never done that before! I know 2 months isn't really a long time, but I think that I am totally in love with him! We will be graduating in 2 weeks and after the summer he is moving to connecticut to go to school and told me he wants me to come live with him and I want to but his past really worries me. He says he hasn't cheated on me and that he is done having 4 girlfriends at once and wants only me and I am the only girl he has felt satisfied with. BUT he is only 18 and I don't know if this is just a commitment phase for him and he will outgrow it and want to go back to being a manslut. Does it sound like he has changed based on 2 months of being faithful? He says this is the longest he has gone without cheating and hes proud of himself and he likes being with just one girl. I don't think it would be fair of me to break up with him because of something he did in past relationships, because he has been nothing but perfect to me. But I also don't want to move across the country and then have him want to cheat again and then be stuck 2000 miles away. Can 18 year old boys who used to be players grow out of their old habits? If he has been the perfect boyfriend like he has would it be stupid to not move in with him? We will have been dating for 5 months by the time he moves, would that be long enough of not cheating if he goes that long to know if he is over his old cheating habits? Sorry this was so long but I thought the more detailed the better. Has he grown out of being a slut? Should I move in with him because he is perfect? I need opinions!
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