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Had sex and now I'm experiencing tenderness in my lower abdomen. Any advice?

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Question - (16 August 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Yesterday, I had sex.

It was long, and very passionate and at points- rough, but today, my thighs are tender to touch and my lower abdomen is again tender to touch. The thighs I can explain but the pain in my lower abdomen I can't.

Can anyone help please?

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A female reader, snowbird Canada +, writes (16 August 2006):

snowbird agony auntIt could have been the 'roughness' of his thrusting which, coupled with the length, making contact with the mouth of your cervix which caused the pain. It could be a little bruised, but a visit to your GP or of course, ob/gyn will clear the matter. They are used to dealing with such problems, and can give you some sound advice. Next time try going on top so that you can determine what is comfortable for you...and tell him "easy, tiger!!" The thighs, well, it could just be his hairyness, or it could be muscular - maybe you pulled something? Whatever, sounds kinda passionate, Have fun, be safe, take care!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2006):

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It was my 5th time, and we used condoms each and every time. It was this 5th time we seemed to find our feet. Do you think he might have been too big for me?

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A female reader, Nay920 +, writes (16 August 2006):

Go to your ob/gyn and find out whats wrong with you. Was it your first time and did you use a condom?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2006):

I have found that sometimes sex is like riding a horse. Your sore in places that just don't make sense sometimes, but in your case it's perfectly normal. The pain should go away in a day or so. But tell the cowboy to ease up a bit. If the pain doesn't go away for a long period of time (week or more), I reccommend talking to a doctor. Better to be safe than sorry. :)

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A female reader, Nay920 +, writes (16 August 2006):

Did you use a condom? If not go to your ob/gyn and tell them what wrong if its not that his penis may have been two BIG for you was it your first time.

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