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writes: Hi there, I have a question I’m hoping the guys and girls of this site might be able to help me with. First off let me say that I am 17 years old and my girlfriend is soon to turn 18. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for nearly a year (our anniversary is on Feb. 1st) and we are deeply in love. For her 18th birthday we plan on getting a little "special". Were hoping to successfully enjoy our first oral experience and I was hoping you guys could give me advice on what to try to help us enjoy this. I think I should note that neither one of us have any experience with this sort of thing. She has never had any sexual experience including masturbation so I’m kinda in the dark about what to do. I check this site every day, so if anybody has any questions I need to clarify I’ll be more than glad to. Thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): im a 17 year old girl and when i first started doing things with my boyfriend id had no experience. what made it so great for me was that my boyfriend really cared and kept checking up to make sure that i was ok and enjoying it, this meant so much to me. keep talking and find out what she likes. If you really love each other it will be a great experience to share
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): I personally love oral sex. Giving it and recieving it. I dont enjoy it when my man goes too fast and rough as it can sometimes be a turn-off, depending on the mood. I enjoy tender kisses all over then gradually to make his way down. I enjoy it when he moves in small circles with his tongue. I love it when he grabs and squeezes my breasts and hips - this is a major turn-on!Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): Hi.Oral sex can be a wonderful part of love making,and there is no reason why it should not be a successs even on the first occasion.Dont spend too much time talking about it beforehand,but dont go like a bull at a gate.Gain her confidence by spending time in foreplay,love talk,and gradually move your kisses from her mouth and breasts to her stomach and lower body.Concentrate for a while on her legs both inside and out,and gradually move your mouth to her clitoris.Nont be worried if she does not immediately try to give you oral sex,as as women are usually a little more restrained at first,but if she enjoys this first experience she will quickly respond and all will be welll.Personally I would not recomend that you cum in her mouth,as this can be a real show stopper in the early stagesand women react in many ways.Dont forget to tell her how wonderful the whole experience was.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2007): Like most people said already, you need to do a lot of preping. Foreplay of the foreplay. Take at least 10-15 minutes making-out and slowly undress her. Take her bra off with your teeth (jk, although its a fun challenge). Slowly cover her in kisses. Gentle kiss all her sensative areas, or whichever you feel comfortable (ears, back of the neck, armpits, back of the knees, around the nipples, inner thighs, ect... askmen.com has a good article on those).
Do not be worried and self-conscience...thats a turn off for almost all women. Most men and females are not good at oral their first time (I've read the men part...being a man I obviously wouldn't know that part firsthand). In fact a lot are never good.
The best advice I have to say is: Like sports, practice makes perfect.
p.s: make sure the both of you clean real good down there. Maybe trim up if you already aren't. It sometimes nice and romantic to shower together beforehand.
Peace,
Goodluck romeo!
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 Start by gently kissing her, then move slowly down. Touch her very gently 'down there' and use slow very light licking movements. Kiss all around and keep using the tongue. Start to suck the clitoris, also use your tongue to rub the clitoris side to side as you are sucking. You can also insert fingers into her as you are doing so. Take her hand and place it behind your head. This will encourage her to pull you in towards her, heightening her pleasure all the more.
Enjoy.
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reader, simong +, writes (14 January 2007):
hiya, take your time, dont just dive in (no pun intended)start at the top and move down very slowly, what i mean is kissing her on the mouth,the neck, the back of her neck her shoulders , her breasts (all over not just the nipples)working down her belly, the sides tops of her legs the insides of her legs, if shes enjoying it you will know, like i said take your time and relax , have a nice warm bath together first, make it special and dont worry if the earth does not move first time,experimenting is fun , hope this helps you, regards
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reader, A Spirit +, writes (14 January 2007):
Talk to her before and during the act. Make sure you find out what she likes or dilikes. Dont be afraid to be open with her about everything. Dont do the alphabet thing, ask her what feels good. Most importantly relax. Enjoy!
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reader, sweetiegirl  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 tell her to be vocal on what she wants you do, like
" faster slower, move up or down " she knows her body and she'll tell you what feels right. the best thing is communication.
If all else fails lick your ABC's it sounds bad but it works if you get stuck.
Sweetie
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