A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I’m getting married and I’m scared to death. I just want to take a quick survey and see if marriage worth it for the guys out there that took the plunge?Why did you get married?Did you remain faithful?Did she remain faithful?Do you miss the excitement of the single life?Would you have done it over again if you had the chance?It seems men risk everything when they get married. What are the benefits? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008): Boo!
Hi, i am the opposite species and in my opinion, a survey is not the best way to judge whether marriage is for you!
but...
Do you want to live with what ifs?
with regrets?
with guilt?
A life lived in fear is only half lived.
Fear comes and goes but love doesn't so be careful that you choose the right one. ( have i frightened you even more?) he1 he! he! lighten up, better to KNOW if you have made a mistake than not know. Have a Fantastic day, you are only running from yourself really which is futile.
A
female
reader, hlskitten +, writes (20 October 2008):
I'm not a guy, but I dont think I need to be to know you're making a big mistake if you get married mate. How did it get this far in the first place?
C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008): You have every right to be!
Yes, it was worth it - at the time.
Because she was pregnant
No
Yes
Not now, but I did then
No
Laundry, Ironing, cooking, cleaning, getting your back scratched, unlimited sex for the first couple of weeks then once a week if you're lucky - the list is long, but not as long as the list of non-benefits you can draw up when you want to get divorced!
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