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writes: WOOHAA got some confusing stuff to ask, I'm 21, never been out with a chick intimately, "still pure" lolNever felt the urge to be in a relationship, but I saw a nude picture of a hot chick the other day, I just felt embarrassed and blushed.Today i saw a picture of a naked hot male stud, woohaaa was that hot, I blushed, when all the colours of red, and got hard, very hard.I think I've been avoiding this situation about these things, but could my reaction mean that i'm gayand turned on? I tried to fight it before thinking that I hadn't found the right girl, but now when I find a hot stud i automatically become all weird and wanna pounce like a tiger, I've never felt that with a chick, ok i find them beautiful, but I get butterflies when I see a hot guy next to me. Reply to this Question
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reader, gungass +, writes (13 July 2006):
In my own experience it would imply that you are gay.
but if you are confused then talk to gay people you know.ask how they dealt with such emotions.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (21 June 2006):
 You go Dr Pete.
*winks and sits back to watch*
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2006): It's a shame a country that offers the Kara Sutra to the world can be so strict against non-hetrosexual sex.
*starts an argument about religion*
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2006): It's a shame a country that offers the Kara Sutra to the world can be so strict against non-hetrosexual sex.
*starts an argument about religion*
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reader, Yos  +, writes (21 June 2006):
 You might be, and you might not. As Dr Pete says, don't worry about labels. See sexuality as a blend of many variables. We all have a mix of many things that turn us on, and to a degree all of us have elements of us that are bisexual.
Personally I count myself as heterosexual. I've only ever had girlfriends, though i tried sex with a guy once (rather young) and didn't enjoy it. However I have on ocassion been very turned on by pictures of naked men... a photo of two men having sex will turn me on even though I know if i was put into that situation i'd (probably) not want to take part. Then again I have some fantasies that are rather strange and I certainly would hesitate to act out in reality.
Having said all that, you might be gay! Or you might be bisexual. There's only one way to really find out... that's to try sex with both a man and a woman and see if you like both, either or even neither (the last one sounds unlikely). Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2006): Try not to identify your sexuality with labels and words. Sexuality is a complex thing. There is nothing wrong with finding different things sexually arousing. You are at an age where your sexuality is still maturing, and you are still in the process of figuring out what makes you, "you".
Try not to ignore or fight any feelings you have, repressing something that is part of your identity can (in my opinion) only be a bad thing. If you have known any gay people growing up in a society that argues homosexuality is a choice and around people who expect them to be straight, you will know what I mean.
Whatever you feel, it is normal for you, so try not to feel like there is any thing wrong, because there isn't.
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