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*ust having a ball
writes:Heya Cupid,My name is Emma and i'm 16 years of age.I just seem to be having a lot of trouble in relationships lately. Every guy i get serious with just blows it off with me they say i annoy them.The only reason i do it is because im so insecure and vulnerable i fall and trust easy and guys seem to walk all over me. I'm the type of girl that needs to be reasured. Can you help me please??
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reader, kenny  +, writes (29 July 2007):
 Like Rasvim say's you need to work on you self esteem here.
When you go out with a guy and you keep seeking reasurance from them it is indeed annoying.
Work on your esteem and confidence before you enbark on your next relationship.
Try a Paul Mckenna hypnosis CD for esteem & confidence. He take's you deep into trance focusing on your breathing all the time. Its half hour of absolute bliss and after you awake feeling happy, confident & seld assured. Do this in a place where you are away from the outside world and do it every day for two weeks.
All the best x
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reader, Rasvim  +, writes (29 July 2007):
Work on your self-esteem before getting into any more relationships. Needing constant reassurance is, in fact, annoying, and can be an invitation to someone who will manipulate and possibly abuse you, using your need for praise as leverage. Seek counseling for your own sake.
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