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writes:I am in my fifties. I dated a guy for over two years, broke up last July of 07. He broke up, but he had become emotionally available. Question, how can they just move on to someone else after two months. He said he couldn't even afford a girlfriend when we were dating, doesn't have alot of money, I am simple and he is more simple. We loved each other alot for the first year, but he had changed and I was after him he just wasn't so attentive anymore..I tried contacting him after it to work, but I guess he found someone else. This girl has money, I don't get it.. He couldn't even handle us he has a depression problem..but I dealt with it.. Was by his side when his mom passed away. Well my Dad died two months ago, didn't even acknowledge me, or text me a card didn't even pay his respects. I don't understand, nothing. He knew my Dad passed away because we have a mutual friend who introduced us. He was never a cold person, and I even left a message after my Dad died.. all the pain and suffering my Dad went through at the hospital..I texted him and told him I was dissappointed he wasn't the person I thought he was and guess I was a poor judge of character.. How could someone do that to someone..
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 April 2008):
 I am afraid that what you did for him was not enough for him
to acknowledge your dad's passing away.
Some men are just callous and do not care after they broke
up with you.It is a complete and total cut off.
If they have any kind of gratitude or compassions,
he would have expressed his condolences to you.
Sorry about that.
Guys can fall in love or fall out of love quickly.
They are wired that way.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (13 April 2008):
 A thing to remember is that with a breakup the person starting the breakup has advance warning.
Say you are in a relationship for six months and person A starts to have doubts, then six months later person A break the relationship off.
This leaves person B with what they thought was a happy relationship of a full year but person A with a relationship of 6 months and 6 months of getting ready to seperate.
Guess who will be ready for a new relationship sooner?
Some people are also naturally selfish, call on others to support them but never there when someone else needs support.
"he wasn't the person I thought he was and guess I was a poor judge of character"
Yup, love makes fools out of us all even when we got half a century behind us. It doesn't even hurt any less just because you got experience.
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