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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Over the summer this boy (Lucas), who used to like my friend, added me on facebook. He asked me to hang out with him and he was really nice so I agreed. He started to like me, and I liked him, but then I went to Europe for a few weeks and stopped contact with him. After school started, I found out that he’s friends and lives next to Kyle, a boy who gave me flowers last year for Valentine’s Day, follows me around, and talks to my friends about how me and him will someday be together (yes it’s creepy but I still talk to him to be polite). Lucas, however, started to like me again and this caused them to get mad at each other. I confessed I liked him too and he started hanging out with me at lunch and hugging me in between all my classes, but he never asked me out. I was happy because lately I had been so stressed out with school and he has emotional problems so I thought we could help each other. He wanted to hang out twice but I was busy. This went on for two weeks until one day he acted different so I asked if he still liked me and he said he wanted to tell me sooner but no. He kept apologizing and said that he was always confused about who he likes. He said it wasn’t because of me, and that something’s wrong with him. I don’t know what to believe, but he is a horrible liar so it might be the truth. I asked why he thought that and listed off some possibilities and he agreed that he was afraid of commitment. I told him to give me some space for a week or so. The next day at school I acted normal and was sure to look happy around my friends so he didn’t think he hurt me. But then he hugged his friend the same way he used to hug me right in front of me during lunch, and she looked at me and smiled. I don’t know what this means, does he like her? But then on Wednesday he saw me walking with Kyle (who has started talking to me again) and also he saw my best guy friend pick me up and hug me, which I didn’t think much of, but then that night on facebook he started talking to me even though I said to leave me alone so maybe that made him jealous? I don’t know if this makes any difference but he’s 15, I’m 16, his parents are divorced and he’s never had a relationship that lasted longer than 2 weeks. Anyways, I really like this guy, what should I do?(Thank you so much for reading this, I know it’s incredibly long!)**I made up their names for privacy reasons
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 November 2010):
 Well it could be possible that because he has come from a broken home he has some issues with commitment and he just doesnt want to be in a relationship at the moment, am afraid if that is the case then there is nothing that you can do to change him, most 15 year old boys dont want to be in relationships at that age anyway am afraid they would rather be out playing the field a bit instead of having a girlfriend so dont take this personal at all, i think it would be best if you try and get over him, dont try and make him jelous or anything and if he trys and makes you jelous ignore him that will fuel him even more keep the no contact rule with him and you will feel better in time.
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