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*rackenbrat
writes:2 years ago, I became friends with this guy, he had a girlfriend, who I was friends with, so we started as just friends. I had NO intentions of dating him. I was single and started dating this other guy, things were going well, until, my friend became single. The confusion then began. I was living with guy A when guy B became single and started pursing me. Guy A never knew anything about guy B, but guy B knew everything that was going on with guy A. I starting lying to guy A so that I could see guy B, then guy A found out. It was and has been a complete disaster from then on. Guy A and guy B both still love and want to be with me, both want to marry me and I have for the last year and half gone back and forth between the 2 men. My family loves guy B and hates guy A, but my children love guy A and hate guy B. What on earth do I do? How do I choose? They are both so ENTIRELY different. Please someone give me some sound answers. THanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): This is a big disaster, respectfully. You've broken trust with both men as a result of your actions miss, and that alone causes a big conflict with a committment, let alone marriage. It's a sure fire sign in my opinion, to recover from this and let both men go. If you continue with either one, you will have a lot of prior issues to deal with and that can lead to a very toxic relationship. Regards.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (25 March 2011):
Well. Cheating is always a bad idea. And what happened to you proves that proposition.Anyway, you now have to choose between two men. And I don't reckon it's a matter of your family or children liking one guy or another. It's up to you.If you can't decide by yourself and you are 100% sure any one of them is just the same. (Which I find extremely hard to believe). I guess you better go with the guy B because you cheated on A and he will always have this against you.
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