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writes:hi there,I was just wondering what to do, you see i sort of like this guy who my best friend likes (i liked him first) and i was going to stay away from him because friends matter more then fighting over a guy.Yesterday i asked him if he wanted a Christmas kiss on the cheek and he said rather not im all kissed out today. I don't know what to do i really like him and i was gutted when he sed that and im not that confident when it comes to boys so asking him that was really worried. So does this mean he dosnt like me and i dont have a chance, or is he playing hard to get, or should i just stay away from him please help! thanks!xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2007): You should just kiss him in future are surprise him. Then he can't say no. if he acts all wierd just say calm down it's just a joke. That's what i do. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): Uh.. i saw something like this on TV. a woman stood in the street and went up to Random guys and quote..
" Hi. would you mind if i kissed you "
out of 100 guys only 2 said yes. its something to do with peoples personal bubbles of space.
Plus.. if a girl wanted to kiss me. even a friend. i'd be suspicious... i mean seriously.
Its like comedy... its all about timing and the element of surprise.
or wait till he's drunk.
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (23 December 2007):
 Hi!
There could be a million reasons why this guy preferred not being kissed, however, you should let him take the next step if there is one to take! Being flirty and letting someone know you like him is fine, but the guys like to do the "hunting" so let him come forward before you do anything else. Let him, or any other guy for that matter, feel he is doing the "hunting" even if you are!
Good luck!
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