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writes: Hey guys I have a yet another problem i would like to have long hair because at the moment ny hair is short to medium length I loike to have long hair as it will help me feel attr45active guys please give me some ideasthanks guys Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (26 June 2006):
 Re: The girl (anon) who asked about products:
Why do you want to grow your hair past your shoulders?Are you not happy with the hair God gave you? If God wanted your hair to be longer it owuld be. It took me almost 10 years to grow mine past my shoulders. My hair has fallen out 3 times because I abused it with relaxers etc. Cheap products DONT work. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2006): this isnt a answer but if someone can help me please i cry every night cause i cant grow my hair pass my shoulders i am a black girl can someone help like wit wat kind of prouducts cheap cheap cheap hair products like 4 a $1 or somethin
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2006): what do you want us to say? what do you want us to give you ideas about? you have said you are growing your hair so, your growing your hair, what do u want us to say? write back
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reader, bonym +, writes (22 June 2006):
My friend, what makes you think that by having long hair you wil be attractive? In my opinion, (just as an example) Halle Berry was so much more sexy and seductive with short hair and I dont thinl the fake, long weaves suit her. Be happy with what you have,if in time your hair grows so be it, but my fiend you need to be happy with who you are and what you have. Take care. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): hey there hun,
I think i probably agree with the rest of the agony aunts, but if u wanna grow it girl, you go ahead! I am!
Now, i would like you to do something for me. I would like you to stand in front of a mirror (a long one if poss), and like some people said, examine yourself to find why you feel unatractive. Question yourself. ask yourself,
1. Is it your skin/complexion, or your face that you dont like?
2. Is it your figure that you dont like?
3. Is it parts of your body that you dont like?
4. Is it your hairstyle that you dont like?
5. Is it your body weight that you dont like?
If it is any of this, you can solve it babe.
If its your skin, face or complexion that you dont like, theres make-up what can make you feel more attractive
If its your body weight or figure that your not happy with, you can resolve this by either putting on a little weight or losing a little weight, you can healthy eat and exercise regurly
If its parts of your body that you dont like, you can slightly re-shape them again by watching what you eat and tone the areas by exercise, focusing on the bits you want to change
If its your hairstyle that you dont like, you can change it. If you are wanting to grow it like you are, grow it, but make sure you have the split ends trimmed every so often, otherwise, when you grow it, you may have to have it cut to medium length to get rid of them. when you are happy with the length, have it styled. look through mags to pick a hairstyle u want.
Also, if you dont have a boyfriend, theres nothing wrong with a little flirting. But make sure that you dont flirt with anyone that has a girlfriend. Flirting can sometimes make you feel attractive.
Hope this was helpful sweetheart. keep us posted! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): I don't see how growing your hair longer is going to make you feel attractive. There is nothing wrong with growing it, but is this what you need to feel good about yourself? Confidence shouldn't come from your appearance, your hair or clothes. It should come from inside you. I don't think men are going to turn you down just because your hair isn't the 'right' length. Many men have told me that the least attractive thing about any woman is insecurity. While you wait for your hair to grow out I think you should spend the time working on getting to know yourself and gaining self-confidence. With the right attitude, you could shave your head and still be attractive to people, lol not that I advocate doing that! Good luck
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reader, babygirl73 +, writes (22 June 2006):
I don't think that growing your hair look is going to make you feel any better about yourself. I think there is a bigger problem than your hair going on and you need to look deep inside yourself to figure out what that is.
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (22 June 2006):
 ...or a wig...
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (22 June 2006):
Get hair extensions...!!
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reader, camille +, writes (22 June 2006):
 Don't grow your hair just because you want to feel attractive (to men?). If you are unhappy with the way you look, have a think about why. Hair shouldn't matter. If you don't like your hair short, fair enough, grow it. , You say this is a 'problem', how is this a problem? Is it because it will take a long time and you want it long now? Get a wig or hair extensions. Or ask a hairdresser how to give the impression of more hair than you have by styles or accessories. I'm assuming you've had long hair in the past and preferred it? Well at the end of the day, I don't want to sound nasty but it's hair, it will grow so there's no 'problem'.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (22 June 2006):
 Growing your hair is your choice but growing your inner self confidence probably takes a bit more work and has longer lasting effects. Growing your hair won't make you more attractive as different people think different things 'attractive'. But if it makes you feel better about yourself then what's the harm?
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