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writes:Quick question. How do you get over memories? Two years ago, myself and my best friend, became very close to a boy 4 years older than us. He drives and we spent the best part of two years with each other, everyday, having a good time, we did make some great memories. But we don't spend time together anymore, at all. None of us do. I can't seem to remember my summers before the summers i spent with them? Now that none of us hang out anymore, it doesn't feel right not seeing them every day like we used to? Why do we always want something back to how it used to be?
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reader, Ima FreAk! +, writes (20 August 2011):
 Hiyaaa,
Replaying the old memories!
It just shows that you really want things to be back where they were and its tough coz in life people change things changes which sucks!
I remember that it was november '08 and me and my mates from school we went to watch twilight coz it was half day and we totally had fun coz of mini disasters. And now 2011 I'm never gonna get that memories back and its starting to fade away.
Memories like that will fade over time and thats how we get over it, once you get a lot of work to do you will forget about old memories.
It's okay if you can't get over this memory but in the future you can make new memories with your friends or anybody really. Don't be upset that you want this memory to replay on and on and live it day by day coz therer will be new memories and great laughs.
Over time you will get over it and I'm sure you will definitely get new memories that will keep you smiling and laughing all day long and will never fade coz you will always have that feeling!
Hope my advice helps!
Good luck!
Lots of love,
Ima FreAk!
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