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writes:Hey all,OK so I've got a problem! Actually massive problem for me right now, driving me into a deep depression! Was going out with a girl I loved for a year, it was amazing but then things slowly changed, we didn't speak as openly as we used to, thing became dull etc...I didn't notice too much just thought we where settling maybe (know better now I think?).Anyway out of the blue she says she needs space.......instant heartbreak, no speaking about things to make it better etc, anyway still saw each other a bit but didn't get back together...after about 2 months we had a dinner to discuss things, and full of passion and love decided to get married (yeah I know crazy right, especially as we both said we don't believe in it) anyway we decided to do it secretly, for US!!! Was 25 at the time.....anyway did it, but still carried on living separately (money issues etc)but seeing each other often! Well after a year all was going well until the same thing happened again....break etc becoming dull, not opening up to each other.Well after 2 or 3 short getting back together s, and promising each other our love, she has decided to take a job in another part of the country, at first I was angry (we where broken up at the time/separated) but then when we got back together she could have told me etc....so when she told me I lost it she asked me if I would go with her and I said no! After a few days I told her I would consider it, we had a sit down and she said I deserved better because I considered going with her and she didn't want to stay here with me! I agreed and still do and told her I want a divorce! So now my situation is, im dealing with a divorce and a broken heart and no-one knows!!!!!!!!!! I'm dying here if I tell my family now they will just hate me for lying for a year and im having to deal with this heartbreak!!!!Please help I don't know what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks will give it a go, the best friend option....don't think i can take the parent route right now!
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reader, Sickpuppies5  +, writes (18 September 2011):
 Well you should talk to someone. I'd say your parents will always love you, even if they are hurt at first. They will understand. If you don't feel comfortable doing this, go to the very best friend you can think of, and tell him/her everything. If this is also not an option, you might want to see a psychologist about it. A few sessions should really help you out. Also try to relax as much as you can, even though times are rough for you now, it will get better.
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