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Got busted for shoplifting!

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Question - (30 September 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I GOT A SHOPLIFTING CHARGE N I DNT WANT THIS TO MESS MY LIFE UP..WHAT CAN I DO TO GET IT EXPONGED N HOW MUCH DOES IT COST? I USUALLY DNT SHOPLIFT BUT I NEEDED SOME STUFF AND I DIDNT HAVE MONEY! CAN YA PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009):

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for everybody thats putting me down for doing this Thanks i already realized my mistakes.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2009):

In the UK, shoplifting is usually a fine. Not sure about USA. It will be on your record though. I shouldn't think you'll be looking at jail for it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009):

If you did the crime then you need to accept the price you pay for it. This is the best way to get your integrity back.

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (1 October 2009):

Caps = shouting

Your claim that you needed stuff and didn't have any money sounds as if your trying to rationalize your actions.

Fact- if you shoplifted, you broke the law, should be prosecuted and should own your actions. You did the crime, now put on your big girl drawers and own it.

you need to do whatever it takes to make this go away. 100+ hours of community service... go for it... don't get all attitude with the judge. Apologize to the store, offer to make restitution- the world doesn't owe you anything when you get out of line.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009):

Dont steal in the first place?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009):

I'll second what anonymous #1 said about typing in capital letters.

Well, if you're over 18 you're no longer a juvenile in America as far as I know, so I highly doubt you'll be able to get this off your record. If you didn't want it on your record, I guess you shouldn't have stolen the stuff huh?

As far as not messing your life up, if you behave from here on out and are up front with future employers about your mistake, *most* places will probably still hire you. Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009):

Don't know anything about expunging shoplifting charge, advice is don't write in capitals it's RUDE!!!

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