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writes: My sister got caught cheating on her husband recently. He is planning to divorce her. My sister is devastated. She had been having sex with her boss for 2 years. He knew something was going on but she never thought he would find it out, but he did. He moved across town into his friends house for now. I went over there because my sister is devastated and I wanted to get him to go back home to try and get it together. Well the only thing that got together was me and him. I spent the night in bed with him having sex with him for hours. I always wanted to have sex with him because he is smart, funny and very attractive. Early in the morning he woke me up, he threw me out and told me to go tell her sister what we did. Now I find myself in a really bad situation. I don't know how to tell her I did that. I don't think he said anything , at least for now. Should I tell my sister what I did?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): Keep in mind I'm not married so...Obviously this man was trying to hurt her using you and also hurt your relationship with your sister. Your sister will take it better hearing what you just told us from you yourself.Apologise, try to make up, and tell her the truth-he was using you.She shouldn't care, if she loved him so much why was she sleeping with her boss?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 October 2008):
Wow!
He's going to tell your sister because I think he only slept with you so he could hurt her like she hurt him.
He is going to throw it in her face with the divorce papers.
I think if you want a chance of forgiveness then you have to make sure it comes from you first. But to be honest I don't fancy your chances. Take a mutual friend who you have already told. Tell your sister then get out because she's going to want to kill you.
Make sure she has someone else around to support her as she's going to feel incredibly betrayed and alone and she may do something stupid if she doesn't have anyone there with her.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, benefattore  +, writes (26 October 2008):
 Why would your sister care about what you did? She obviously didn't love him to begin with because she was cheating for TWO years like a slut.Tell her, she shouldn't care. Move on.
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