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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a female friend. Her and I have had sex together in the past, maybe 6 months ago. We had sex on multiple occasions. She is actually straight, and I a lesbian. One major reason, I believe, as to why we don't have sex anymore is because we no longer live together. We have maintained a friendship but sometimes im lost as to when she talks and what she means. For instance, saying she wants to have a sleepover. She gave me some mashed sweet potato that contained nuts, and warn me they contained nuts...then randomly and oddly she says oh that's right you ate nuts all the time when we lived together. I thought it odd. So recently she asked me out to lunch and being free that day I agreed. She was a bit hands on with me wanting me to touch her chest and check her body out. I thought nothing of it bc she could just be touchy. I need some outside insight on if my friend is trying to send a sexual message or does she just want a close friend she can be touchy feely without sexual elements.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2014): Clearly, she wants you to have your way with her again. Take her up on the sleepover idea and have fun.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 October 2014):
 Well, for one, she isn't straight. She is (at minimum) bi sexual or bi-curious.
I think she hasn't made up her mind as to what "label" she wants to stick on herself (if any) and thus all the conflicting messages.
I think she might want some sort of sexual relationship with you, but 1. she doesn't know how to ask, and 2. she doesn't want to ruin the friendship she has with you. 3. she is a little unsure.
IF she calls herself straight - then that is HOW she wants to perceive herself. And she wouldn't be looking for anything serious.
So if YOU are looking for a partner and not just a FWB on the side type deal, she isn't it.
Why not ask her, point blank what she wants? Friendship or more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2014): She may be confused too. How to act and what she wants.
What do you want?
I would just talk with her about it and that way you know versus not knowing.
So either ask or wait for her to make the 1st moves. But a talk would be more clear
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