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Going back and forth for years. Are we meant for each other?

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Question - (28 August 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Let me start from the beginning. My sophmore year in high school I started dating a guy which turned into a first love. We were madly in love that we talked about children and marriage. we were 16 and I was his 1st sex but he was not mine. At the end of our juinor year we broke up cuz his parents didnt approve of me. we still had sex behind his parents back. Then he met someone else and got her pregnant. they married and moved away. I was devestated. He came back to town after his child was born and we again started to see eachother. By the time his 2nd child was born we stopped again and he went into rehab for drugs. After rehab he divorced his wife and saw me again. At that time I met my husband. I married and had a child. After 7 years of marriage i divorced. During that time he went to prison. After my divorce I moved back to my home town. He got out of prison and remarried. He then moved back to our hometown. He went looking for me and we started up yet again. He also confessed to me that he has another mistress in another town. He has no kids with his new wife and says she treats him like crap and there is no sex life at all. After all this time i can't help but wonder, are we ment for eachother? Going back and forth with eachother for years is tearing my hair out. I love him and I will always love him but does he feel the same for me? Or should I just end it and forget about him? I am so confused.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011):

He has cheated on his wives, currently has a mistress besides you, and has been in prison. Please leave him and don't look back. He loves himself and no one else. I'm sorry.

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