A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:OkayI'm in a bit of dilemma there's a girl.. who i like very much. I've known her since primary school so a while ago. Anyway we became good friends after a party, and at that point i was with someone. But i could instantly tell i liked this girl. anyway fast forward 1 year, Me and my now ex had broken up and now she was with a guy. I was still getting around at parties nothing serious.. but i think subconsciously waiting for her to break up with this guy. This girl soon became friends with all my friends.and eventually they did break up, and this girl then invited me to go to her formal (Prom)(through some debate though, due to the fact my ex now was at her school and would be at the formal) .Anyway my dilemma is that I'm used to girls.. liking me, and knowing that they like me. Its blindly obvious to me. But with this girl, its different i can't tell.. like a few nights ago, she came over with a friend for my help.. and after we rode our bikes at like 11 at night, it was ......great. And the bottom line.. i can't bring myself to ask her out again,(I asked her to come to a concert, i said i would shout, she said she would love to but her parents said no), there's a possibility i could ask her to my formal, in like 2 months but i think that's too long away.. anyway quiet frankly I'm scared of rejection or losing this girl and if i screw this up ill probably lose all my friends. But then again i haven't felt THIS way in a while..i can't bring myself to ask her out, because i fear the rejection and the consequence if all fails, i honestly believe they out weigh, her... But i all i do is think of her, and i don't even know if she likes me.. :( Ultimately... i need to ask a question and that question is....What do i do? Go with this girl whom i like, ALOT! But risk losing my friends who i love. or keep quiet and wait or hope another girl comes along, as great as her. cheers
View related questions:
my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 If u want any chance with her u will deal with ur fear of rejection and ask her out.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2010): If you really like this girl, go with her!
Take a chance. You seem to really like her. Just don't hurt her and your friends should stay by your side.
Ask her out sometime. something casual-ish.
Good Luck!!
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2010): wow we are in extremely similar situations man, i guess in my point of view (a 17 year olds) she is somewhat into you seeing as she asked you to her prom... So that is a very good sign, do you think you are in love with this girl? becuase thats very importanat. it seems you feel very strongly about her, i think you should go for it and ask her on a date or to your prom or both, i doubt you will lose all your friends because of her rejecting you. You should go for it and i think she will be excited to see you are into her, because, if she asked you to her prom thats a big sign that shes at the very least somewhat into you.
...............................
|
