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writes:Hi guys I'm a 20 year old guy and have a 27 year old girl,I'm currently studying my first year bcom accounting degree at a university in south africa,my girlfriend neva managed to finish school and is currently a domestic worker,3 years ago we met and became friends and since last year december we stated our relationship,my parents and family did'nt like her at first coz they said she's not right 4 me an dshe's old as well.Her family is economically not as better of as mine I guess but the thing is in this 5 months I've only managed to see her once as I'm studying and she's working and recently she told me that I would only see her in desember as we are ver very far appart and she can only see me in december,we sms and call each other daily as we havent got the means to email etc,I love thi girl so much that I woul give my everthing to share a life with her,she loves me just as much as I do coz she has had some unpleasant experiences in the past with guys and now sudenly theres me a real gentleman as I compliment myself,its hel not seeing her and I have focus on studying as well,I've never cheated on her and dont ever plan on doing it no matter how tempted it I may be,can anyone give me some advice for how I should handle not seeing her and still amke a success of my career.do you think it will work out for the two of us coz I certainly think we deserve each other as we have an open honest relationship although its still fress and now a longdisstance one
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): May-to-June relationships are difficult (older woman/younger man) Marriages between Paupers and Princes are difficult. Long distant relationships are difficult. But true love waits, is patient and kind......
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): This might sound weird comin' from me because I'm 17 but I hope I can help you out. I have been with a guy for a year and a half and it's been a long distance relationship the entire time, now some people find this weird, I've NEVER seen what he looks like but he's seen me. He's 19 and I'm 17. And he has asked me to marry him. To me, even though I don't know what he looks like, I know that I couldn't spend my life without him. We've been through good and bad and we've come out standin' strong and still together. If you know that you love her and that she definetely loves you back, go for it. Take a chance and don't let her slip through your fingers. Tell her how you feel and make sure she tells you how she feels and always make sure you have an honest relationship and good communication. Love is a 2-way street, not a one.
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