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writes:I am thirteen years old meaning I am still in school. I have had boyfriends in the past and all that, but haven't done anything drastic with them. I am 34C, which is bigger than most girls in my year. But the thing is, when I talk to boys they only show intrest in my boobs and ask me to do stuff for them, but it's starting to hurt me. I wouldn't mind if they really liked me and actually took time to know me, but they don't and it hurts me so much knowing that thats the only reason. What shall I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): What shall you do? Cut off your b**bs :P Ok.. kidding aside, realize that your body is a part of you. We dont always relate to another person's whole being. We relate to some part. You may like a guy's humor sense... or a guy's intelligence... or some talent like musical skills.. something. It is part of that guy just like your b**b is part of you. Why liking one's body is considered shallow and liking one's intellect is somehow superior? It is all stupid concepts invented by us. "Liking me for myself" is a meaningless concept. What you expect a guy to be interested about in a girl? Intellectual conversations? He can have better intellectual conversations from other guys than from most girls. Sexual attraction is the primary force pulling guys and girls together. Enjoy it for what it is without worrying about meaningless questions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): Me again.
Oh and molly2212.
They ask me to get my boobs out and stuff like that. /:
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): It's me again.
Thanks for all the replies, I guess they are just teenage boys.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (8 March 2009):
 Yes they are teenage boys, and a girl with larger breast than the rest of the class is a novelty to them.
Don't give up all hope there are nice guys out there too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): Hiya,
Boys your age are going through puberty and are starting to show interest in the opposite sex, and therefore realising you have a set of boobs, meaning they enjoy talking to them!
Even if thats all they are interested in, just have a little fun with them [i don't mean sexual lol] and go out with them, [nothing serious], and see if there is a relationship there with one of the guys. Your still growing up and have plenty of time to find a relationship, so as i said before, just have fun =]
Remember most boys your age can be shallow and are only interested in one thing, but i guarantee that there will be a diamond among the rough. I hope everything works out okay for you, and remember your 'size' is a blessing, i'd give anything to be able to go shopping for a 32C!
xxx
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