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writes:hey, ive been going out with my girlfreind for just over a year and she no longer putting the effort it to the relationship.we dont talk anymore when i try to talk to her she just ignores me or wont engage in conversation, ive tried to tell her i dont like it the way it is but its not working he just wont listen.i love her but the way she being i just feel lonely and the she wont talk to me about it.i dont know what to do anymore any help would be appreciated, thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 June 2012):
 Sounds like she has been pulling away for a long time. She doesn't want to be the "bad guy" and break up.
I would honestly sit her down (face to face) and tell her what you feel. You CAN'T make her put an effort into the relationship. You CAN'T make her love you, if she isn't in love with you no longer.
But you CAN talk to her. You CAN stop ignoring the signs.
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reader, Giroud  +, writes (3 June 2012):
 Yes im also going through the same thing as you brother man..
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reader, N91 +, writes (3 June 2012):
 Sounds like she probably wants to end things but doesn't have the balls to tell you and could be doing this as a way of coaxing you into doing it for her.
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