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male
age
26-29,
*yanicoco
writes: my girlfriend just broke up with? me 3 months ago by message in facebook and wont give me a reason why, and yet few days ago before our break up. all she kept on saying was "i love you" and "i couldn't imagine life without you"...then she message me "i'm letting you go".what do think is the reason why she suddenly broke up with me?
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (20 July 2011):
That's cold! In the old days they'd just call you on the phone and rip out your heart(but enough about me. Facebook is an abomination anyway!
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male
reader, Drew21 +, writes (20 July 2011):
I had something similar happen to me. Was head over heels
for a girl. She told me over and over that she had
never been this happy with anyone before, and she loved
me so much and couldn't imagine life without me.
As a young guy with very little experience in love,
i believed it completely. I was absolutely convinced
that i would marry this girl.
Then out of the blue, over the course of about 2 weeks, it all changed. She took a week vacation, and came back and told me it was done.
It devastated me. To this day i try to rationalize
what could have gone wrong.
I finally learned to accept that i just would never
get closure on it, and moved on.
I also learned to take ANYTHING that anyone tells me with
a certain grain of salt. It stinks that i'm such a
pessimist now, but what can be done? It's the only thing
you can do to protect your heart, ya know?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2011): Impossible to say, how long were you together? Has she been in contact since? How serious were you? Etc need a lot more information to go on. Though if she won't say why then I think you should accept this girls decision and move on.
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