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30-35,
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writes:Met this girl recently, she's hot but I'm not really interested in her that way because I like women who are intellectual. I thought she was a bit too friendly when we first met, laughing at all my jokes etc. I also keep noticing her trying to catch my eye etc. and coming over to say hi for no reason but I thought she was friendly bc she does this to loads of people.Well, we were at a party and I overheard her talking about "make him jealous" with her friends when I was in the bathroom (it was definitly her bc she has a strong Northern accent). I didn't hear who about but didn't really think about it.Anyway, later i was in the kitchen making a drink, and my mate was nearby minding his own business DJing (with headphones on!). Suddenly she comes up to him and starts obviously flirting, taking his headphones off, caressing the laptop etc. (he just looked surprised)? They don't even know each other lmao. I also noticed her friends watching me (like REALLY staring) and giggling when this happened. I just ignored it bc it was kind of weird. Then, later on, I was talking to him while we were on the sofa and she ruffled his hair and giggled as she walked past.How should I react? Just ignore her? Its a bit irritating, but if I react like that she might think "Oh I did make him jealous." I'm not even that hunky lol, she's hotter than me, although I can make ppl laugh.. She seems really nice otherwise so she might make a good friend. But it seems bitchy to me to try to make me jealous.I'm 23 and she is around 18-20, I think.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 November 2016):
 Sounds like she is still quite immature and is trying to play games to get your attention. She appears to be quite younger than you and probably doesn't know how else to get your attention. If you are not interested then just ignore her behavior. If it continues then just set her straight and tell her you are not interested.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (12 November 2016):
 If she's hot and you are not interested in her, she could see you as a challenge, hence her trying to manipulate you into "caring".
I suspect that, if you ignore her, she will eventually get bored and move on to someone else.
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reader, N91 +, writes (12 November 2016):
 If you're not interested then you don't need to do anything. She will get the message eventually.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (12 November 2016):
Ignore...Please....That takes to much energy. If you are truly not interested...then don't even have a care in the world. You live your life, and let her live hers.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (12 November 2016):
 IF you aren't interested in her, feel free to ignore her shenanigans. For someone to think to make another person ACTULLAY helps is sad, but then again she is still young.
Not sure why it's annoying though, it's not YOU she is messing with.. it's your friend.
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