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writes:What can i do when my girlfriend of 6years leaves me for someone whom she just met?? Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny  +, writes (24 January 2007):
 I knows its hard being dumped, espesially after a six year relationship.
You have got to pick yourself up and move on, whats done is done.
I agree with ponungahungh, you would be better getting out there and finding someone new.
Good luck
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reader, Millyella  +, writes (24 January 2007):
 I agree with the others. Your options are the passive one (sit and wait for her uncertain return) or the active one (go and live your life and try to derive some happiness from it).
This is a horrible thing you're going through, and i know you'd like to turn back time. But the reality is that your relationship is finished, even though you had no part in making that decision. Our lives will always be affected by the decisions of those we care about; nobody is immune to that. Spend time with friends and family who will support you through this emotional time. And try to do things that give you pleasure; every small happiness gets you further along the road to recovery.
Good luck.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (24 January 2007):
 I dont think there is a lot you can do... Perhaps move on and find someone new yourself. She may regret her decision and come back but do you want wait around until she does ? You could contact her and found out why, but I doubt very much if it will change things. Perhaps she needs a change of scenery and decided to bolt. I dont know the circumstances surrounding why she did it, or what your relationship was like, I know 6 years is a long time and time is a great healer, but right now hun, I dont think you have a lot of choice but to accept it and move on. I know its hard and your hurting, but if shes made her decision there really isnt a lot you can do about it.
Try to do things to take your mind off it and get out and about so your not dwelling, I do sympathise, its a big chunk of your life that has changed, but its now up to you to make the best of yourself.
I wish you well, take care and time will help.
x x
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (24 January 2007):
 You have a couple of choices:
1) Go meet someone new.
2) Sit at home and wait for their return.
I'd select choice number 1 myself.
Good luck!
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