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writes:So, I like this one guy. I met him in October, and I started getting closer to him in January. He's a super shy and quiet guy, but I managed to make him open up to me. Anyways, I'm really wondering if he likes me back.When I first got to know him, I always started the conversation online. Now, he starts it. In real life, he's also the first person to wave hello to me when we pass by each other. I do find him looking at me during lunch sometimes. He also calls me cute and how my dimples are cute (i'm even surprised he looks at my dimples. they hardly show), but he also talks about how cute other girls are too. -_-Anyways, a few days ago, I was talking to him alone while he was opening his locker. His hands was shaking so much. When he's with his friends, he doesn't shake or he keeps his hands in his pockets. I asked him "why are you shaking so much?" he was like, I shake a lot. I find that bs lol. Today, while I was talking to his friends during lunch, he was holding an apple, and his hands were shaking so much. o_oYeah, i honestly don't know if he likes me back. He talks about other girls and that makes me re-think...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2014): You're not his girlfriend, so I guess he's free to talk about other girls.
You make him nervous; because you're not the shy type. He isn't sure how to deal with a outgoing girl; because he may lack confidence. You have been able to get him to open up to you.
Next time you plan to hangout with a group of friends; invite him to come along. Force him out of his shell and let him grow comfortable being around you. Don't mention his shaking anymore. That will make him self-conscious, but don't worry; because you also let him know how cool you are.
He likes your dimples, and he said so. That's a very good start. You're just more outgoing than he is. So keep talking to him when you see him. He already knows you're easy to talk to, cute, and I can guess you're a sweet girl too. You don't just ignore him; but you're making it easier for him to open up.
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