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writes:Hi, I need some advice about sex with my bf. I'm getting back together with my ex after being apart for a year and we agreed to give it another go. We've been talking on the phone, meeting up for lunch etc, sort of like dating all over again I guess. I'm not sure how soon is ok to sleep with each other again? Should we wait a few weeks or just go with the flow or what. It's kind of weird because we were together for years and had a regular sex life and now after over a year apart, we're acting like a new couple. We've mostly just hugged and kissed each other but haven't stayed over at each others place etc. Has anyone else been in this situation and how did you handle it? Thanks.
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reader, bitterblue  +, writes (22 December 2009):
 I think it wouldn't hurt to wait a while to just date and reestablish some grounds of friendship - just to be surer that you aren't getting back together only because it's more comfortable to see an ex than go through all the stages of a relationship with someone new; this applies to both and in fact makes a good topic for conversation: what brought you back together and how willing you are to make it work at a second attempt?
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (22 December 2009):
 just do it when ever you feel comfortable. I think you may already be.
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