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writes: Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and have always known that he watches porn. We moved in together in November and he has bought it with him. I wasnt snooping through his things but i found the disks. The thing is i have this really big hang up about the thought of him watching it, it makes me feel sick to think that he is getting excited over watching it and it makes me feel unattractive. I know it is normal for blokes to watch this but i still dont like it. He does know this and i think he appreciates it but i still cant stop thinking about it. Am i being stupid and what can i do to get over it? I'm not really into the thought of getting interested in what he likes because these sort of movies he has are really not for couples. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2005): Hey there....I think u have a situation right there!But dont worry....u will be fine if you can talk it through with your man.sit him down and talked about it,tell him how you feel about his CD's and most of all about the damage that they are doing so your relationship....make him see that you are the real thing.When guys see those things....it is a sign that the respect he had for you as a woman is out the door.so let him know how you feel and let get rid of those things.....and you know its funny! porn is like walking on foot when the bus is empty.so sit him down and ask him what drives him to go that far when you are there for him
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