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I get jealous and can't cope, worrying about what she might be getting up to...

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Question - (8 March 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I had been seeing a girl for about a month and although we weren't officially together we both felt like we were.

I suffer from depression so struggle to trust her, get jealous when she talks to guys and I'm paranoid about what she gets up to. I look through her phone sometimes and have seen messages from other guys. I get moody and we always fall out because I say I dont trust her. She says she wants to get serious with me and I can tell she really likes me. But I ended things completely the other day because I couldn't cope.

I really like her though, but keep upsetting her. I want to be with her but dont think I can trust her and think I will continue to hurt her. Is it worth me trying again as I keep thinking about her? How can I change and trust her?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2005):

Grab a hold of yourself man... if she calls you at the end of the day you are still doing something right.

She is young, you are young... relax, worst comes to worst you two break up and love again.

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