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writes:been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and he has a 3 month old baby. its kinda complicated... baby isnt mine obviously and we have a bit of an age gap, im 17 and hes 25. i get on ok with his ex when i see her, but i dont think he tells her im with him anytime he has the baby which is perfectly understandable but last night i stayed in his house and his mother walked in to find me alone in his bed while he went to collect the child. she didnt look impressed. she sent him a text giving out about me being around when the baby is around, and i heard them argue. but im not trying to play mommy here! how do i make this woman like me and resepct me? shes always very nice to me but i can tell she thinks i will get attatched to the kid or the kid will get confused..im shy but id like to talk to her some time about how i dont wanna be seen as the babys mother or anything! i know his exs mother dosnt want me with the baby, again i understand this but how can i spend time with him and not the kid? i accept the fact he has a big responability towards this child, but time is crazy sine i work and study and am in school, and he works all the time too we only get to see each other at the weekends really.... and he has baby every second week....adivce would be wonderful? ~B
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): Not true, sexygirl. She is legally of "consent" at sixteen. But, she does not mention any sexual activity, here. She is simply asking about how to be accepted and trusted by BF's mom vis a vis the child. That is what we are talking about.
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reader, sexygurlchristmas2008 +, writes (6 October 2007):
 hun the truth is your jailbait til you turn 18 cuz he could go to jail if he went out with you
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): My only advice is to be as courteous as you can be to his mom. Grandmothers are v-e-r-y protective of grandbabies. You should talk to BF and make sure he lets "mom" know you are being helpful and care for the kid. He should also arrange more "get togethers" at his mom's home with you there. You need to make friends with her. If she knows you are a loving person, and mature, she will be fine with you.
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