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writes:ok, well im a really, really shy person and there is this one guy who likes me and i like him but i dont know if i should make the first move or if he should?? and if i should make it what should i do?? i am also goin to his house today because his sister is best friend. but please help!!!
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reader, xxxangelxxx  +, writes (6 October 2007):
 yeah go 4 it! if he seems 2 b welcoming then yes. Make it light and casual, make friendly conversation. Ask what movies he likes or something, then ask "ohh have you seen this ****" if he hasn't then invite him along with you. smile lots and just be yourself. come to an agreement then say something like "do u want my number incase u cant come?". However if u seem 2 get alot of negative response then stop advancing, u dont want 2 embarass yourself by bein 2 eager or desperate.
u dont have to make the first move but if ur open enough then u can make it together. im shy as well and this is what i do, it usually works 4 me.
good luck!!! just be yoourself!!! hope it goes well, have fun!!xxx
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reader, kenny +, writes (6 October 2007):
 I think in this day and age it does not look too out of place for a girl to ask a guy out as it did years ago. Infact there are probably alot of guys out there who would welcome an invitation from a girl/woman. Keep it light and just casualy ask him if he fancies doing something over the weekend. Keep it friendly and fun, like say there is this cool movie thats just come out at the cinema, do you fancy coming with me to see it.
Hope it all goes well for you, & good luck x
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