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36-40,
*xSABBYxx
writes:Ok here goes.. i have been in a relationship with my Partner of 7 years, and we have booked our civil partnership for next summer! We both are a good match and people love seeing us together, especially our family.Throughout our years together on at least 5 occasions i have found profiles on our internet, profile were he is meeting people online, talking and swapping pics etc..Last year was the most recent, and i told him it has to stop (after recieving advice from you guys) he told me it would and that he would never ever meet anyone behind my back and loves only me..But this is the problem!since the last time we agreed to have a profile were we both could go online together to meet other gay couples for friendship and off course the possibility of pic swapping (which never came about anyway) But on that profile i met a guy and we have became friendly... he lives a plane away in Uk so we will never meet anyways..but now he has told me he has feelings for me and wants to meet me.. i have told him i dont think that would ever happen.. my head is melted.. and to top it all off i have been on my home comp again and found yet another profile from my partner and his profile is set as complete discretion required.. I guessed his password and got it right and seen his inbox from loads of fellas! my head is completly fried and i need advice... do i continue a relationship with the guy i love even though he cant stop being online behind my back... or have a break and meet this other fantastic guy who promises me everything.... its just a Mess! help?Loads of Love Sabby! xxx
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reader, xxSABBYxx +, writes (8 December 2009):
xxSABBYxx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell people thinks grass is always greener and it never is....there is no way im throwing away 7 years with my one true love! thanks for you comments girls, all is great and back on track, no more messing around! xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): You don't know what you've got until you've lost it all.
You two have to decide what's worth it and what's not.
Peoples emotions are not to be played with. Think hard about it both of you. Determine as a couple whether it's worth it to stay in the relationship or call it off. Like the previous comment... 7 years is along time and to throw it all away... Is it worth it.
best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): The grass is never as green as it appears Sabby. Stick with your partner and work on your relationship. If things don't work out then fine, pursue the other guy, 7 years is a long time to throw away for someone you have never met before!
Take care,
Biff
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