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Gay or not? 14 with a crush on a boy AND a girl.

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Question - (27 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

the thing is i think i may be gay right i get turned on when i think about it and i admit watching some male porn but something happened at school when a boy kissed me as a dare and i really like him but now i also like a girl i know i am young and that so i still have a long way to decide but when the guy kissed me it felt right and i want to think what the future would be like and the girl although i thinkj the same i dont think about it that much only the boy ahhhhh help???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009):

Hey,

I know it can be confusing

Your only young, you don't need to worry about labeling yourself as gay

just follow your feelings.

however unless u have reason to suspect that the guy feels the same i wouldnt recomend telling him, as kids can be cruel.

hope i've helped.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009):

Honestly I think everyone is a little bit gay..

I have friends that call themselves gay but they have had relationships with people of the opposite sex as well. I have another friend who call's herself bi-sexual but mostly just has relationships with men.. So basically its like a scale 1 being only attracted to the same sex and 10 being only attracted to the opposite sex. Maybe your just somewhere in the middle.

You should just like whoever it feels right to like, and don't worry to much about fitting into a box of being gay or straight.

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