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writes:dear cupid,my girlfriend spent the summer in colorado for an internship where she is having the time of her life which is awesome, but i never here from her anymore and any time i ask her what she did i get one word answers and just talks about the weather. it almost feels like i'm not part of her life any more. Recently she went to a movie with her boss and he made it seem like it was a date yes the guy is older by 8 years but she spends more time with him and the people over there and any time she talks to me i always get the i'm tired i'll talk to you later so i don't know what to do any more do you have any suggestions or am i just being paranoid that she is moving away from me. oh and she keeps telling me it would be easier with someone my own race oh she is white and i'm indian. Reply to this Question
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reader, fishdish +, writes (9 July 2011):
 You two are broken up. She doesn't care about you, you need to move on and stop contacting her. I don't really think it's appropriate for a girl to go to the movies at night with any guy other than her boyfriend, and that it's a boss makes it particularly inappropriate.I don't know how much race has played a role in your relationship, unless it HAS played a big role, I tend to think it's a cop-out. I'm sorry, try to enjoy the rest of your summer and learn how to live without her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011): She's not interested anymore. The race excuse is the lamest thing you can say to someone. If she can't be honest with you and give you the time that you need from her, then she's not worth your time. Find someone who can be honest with you and say how they feel. Hope I helped.
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (9 July 2011):
maybe she has met someone else she likes i personally i would break up with her it sounds like she has lost all interest in you
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011): You're not paranoid. She IS moving away from you. She's hinting that she either wants you to end the relationship or just go away quietly.It's over, I'm afraid.
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