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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend is beginning to kind of push me away, it started out fine, I called her every day. Then she started answering lesser, and lesser. So now I cant even get her to even go out with me anywhere. Whats wrong here? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): i think you are smothering her and just need to back off and give her space. let her come to you once in a while.
She's showing signs of being less interested because we a like a challenge once in a while. Not someone there at our beck and call
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reader, huneygyrl +, writes (5 January 2009):
 If you have concerns, that's something you should take up with your girlfriend. It could be a small issue or maybe it's a big issue.
Talk to her to see what's the reason why she's not picking up.
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reader, theocm +, writes (5 January 2009):
 how long have you two been together or known one another? does she exhibit signs of depression? what activities do you two do when going out? its not your fault, but i am asking because she may not be into those things, or she may need new activities? this is an issue to bring up with her, as its hard to decide whats going on in her mind, but if you are trying this hard, and doing all the work in calling, its not you. it may very well be an internal issue of her own. she maybe withdrawing from social situations for other reasons. are you willing to go further and ask her? good luck dear!
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